Whoever came up with the saying “sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt” had to be deaf because in reality words can hurt, I’m a firm believer that the power does rely in the tongue and if the wrong thing is said, it can lead to death. Have you ever stop to wonder why before some people commit suicide they write a letter? In reality words do hurt weather its being told by your significant other that their no longer in love with you, or your being told by someone that they hope you die or they hope something bad happens, you may not admit it but deep down inside your soul “ if you have one” it hurts. In sports if you try your hardest and you’re told you’re not good enough it does something to you, now what you do after that determines what type of person you are, do you use it as motivation to prove them wrong? Or do you believe what they say and let it destroy you? Ladies I know for a fact that the sticks and stones saying isn’t use in your case because when your with someone or just meeting someone and they tell you that you need to lose some weight, or you don’t look the same way you use to it hurts you may get to a point where you go along your life and good man comes along and tells you that your weight and the way use to look, or whatever happen in your past doesn’t matter to him because he sees you for the person you really are or can be but it doesn’t matter because some no good dude has said so many bad things to you for so long to the point where you started believing it and its stuck in you and no matter how sincere the good dude is no matter how much truth is in him when he say’s none of it matters it doesn’t matter to you because you’ve endured so much mental pain to where your convince that all men are the same and a good man has slipped past you.  “Mental pain” I believe that mental pain is worse than physical pain, I can remember when I would smoke instead of me putting the cherry out with an astray I would simply use my hand now you may wonder why but I’ve endured so much mental pain to the point where I didn’t feel physical pain, if I bumped my head or anything like that the pain never lasted too long but if my lady told me one day that she no longer loved me the same or in sports or life I was told that I was too small or wasn’t good enough it would take the mental pain longer to healed and by the way I am a good man.  So the saying should go “sticks and stones may break my bones but words hurt worse”

That’s enough for right now I just thought I’d pour out some thoughts so until next time remember LOVE IS GOD and GOD IS LOVE and no matter what you do in life make sure you do it CERTIFIED..

R.J.  aka Mr. Computer Chip